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dottie said:
This is haunting me like a predator that stalks its prey. I cannot believe that he is gone. I just cannot. I am hoping to join a bereavement group. But will that really help me? I tried that after my husbands death years ago..and it did not help me. It's always with me. How can I let go!!!???

dottie
Lord..I wish that I could bring him back!

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oh god, I so know what you are saying. Death is so final and lasts so very long.
The human mind can't understand this. We keep searching for our beloved who has died.
Last Sunday my nephew died. I am sobbing. there's no way to bring my sister's first born son back. I remember him as a baby...I want him back from the void but there's no way I can do that.
We need to come to a place of understanding and tolerance.
they are gone. We can't bring them back.
It's time to look at our lives and see how they made our lives enriched.
each death has a gift...look for your gift in his death and embrace it.
with love and understanding I send this message
G.