i wish i could be i hate confrontation. it isn't like i am inviting conversation either. yes i do talk some because i an confident in what i am doing .but i don't invite conversation. i will respond if asked or aproached.(NOT ALWAYS) but she comes and asks questions and i answer .and find out later she was just fishing to see if i got or did something that she didn't and then complaines if i did.it makes me feel horrible. and it is the stupidest things. like i went to this craft thing on sat and she was there and it was really busy .they were having a drawing for big prizes and you got enterys depending on how much you spent .anyway she was freaking about getting her enteries in before the drawing (no reason to ) she asked me if i ahd gotten my tickets yet and i said yes that the store owner just added up what i owed and gave me my tickets and i was going to pay her after the rush. i didn't think much of it when i said it but then she went all nutz about why did i get to do that and not her and so on .it was because i just gave it to her and she did it .i didn't ask .anyway it made me feel like crap for her doing it for me.in fact i had a horrible night about it .