Adam due to my meds I think I forgot what real sex is. My meds killed my sex drive and my ability to have O's. If I know something is going to happen then I can skip my meds for about 36 hours before I get to weird to function. I also take my meds at night so if I do end up having sex it is not completely useless. It is a lot more work involved then I like. O's shouldn't be exhausting from the amount of effort involved. There ar to many other positive reasons for it to be exhausting. Reasons the meds killed. Some folks have added wellbutrin w/ success it just gave me endless days of no sleep and that doesn't work for me.

So at this point my meds work well and we don't want any more children anyway so no sex is fine w/ me. Plus I have other relationship issues at play here to. But if me and my H ever do get along again then I might start cutting the dosage little by little.

Hope you find something that works. Like my brother in law says, meds are supposed to make your life better not making you feel worse because you can't preform like you used to. Now how is that gonna make you feel better. Agreed.