As I say she just sees herself as a victim in all this. I've had quite severe depressive moods since November last year. All this time, not once has she given me any support, offered any constructive words. I've been out the house an hour now and my mood has completely changed already.

She totally changed on me a few years back went from a really giggly fun girl to something completely the opposite. I can't stand being around her, nothing you do is ever good enough but she doesn't offer anything in return. Treats me like a pervert if I show her any attention or compliment her looks. I'm not going back into that marriage now. I'm going to do my therapy and start thinking about me. They say relationships are give and take, I don't think they meant the Husband gives and the Wife takes. The worst thing is she can't see it. I understand she's had a very traumatic childhood but that doesn't give her free reign to pull my life apart.