My ex tried this too - he lied about me to our kids - who are grown. I wouldn't participate in dragging them into a 'he said - she said' and dragging myself down to his level. In the beginning, it was hard - because I think he got their ear once or twice - but now years later - they know he's full of it and I hope they appreciate me letting them find out the truth for themselves. I've never bashed him to our kids - and he does nothing but bash me, every time he gets.

Hang in there! You're better off without him. Stay safe! I hope things go well for you!