I feel the same as you. Sometimes it can make things difficult as I always need to feel that my husband loves me. I've thought about it often. Is it because we think we don't deserve to be loved? Or is it because we think we are not good enough to be loved? If we don't love ourselves how can we except the fact that others do love us. I think it's all down to that. Not loving ourselves. I really do understand how you feel.