(((((((((((((SongBirdandDaisy)))))))))))))

I'm so sorry things are so rough right now. It's so hard to keep everything/one inside calm when so many things trigger. I wish you the best with your surgery. You will be in my thoughts.

Maybe making sure there are things that Ann likes to do (colors, a small stuffie, etc) close by so if there is a problem, she can do those? Sometimes I have found that if I have something in my hands, I am able to stay present even though it doesn't feel like it's my hands that are holding the stuffed animal etc.

Best of luck to you. Please keep us posted. We care.