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Originally Posted by LolaCabanna
Fix you need to talk to her about your desire to be special and what kind of comforting and support you are looking for. It is possible that her blank slate approach won't work with you and you may need to find a new T. I am sorry that this is happening and I get it, as I think everyone except a few of us yearn to be special to our T's. There are plenty of T's out there and if this one isn't working then perhaps you can interview new ones till you find a good fit.  |
Thanks. Yeah, we did talk about it a bit. I really don't know specifically what she could do differently. I mentioned maybe saying something in the realm of "thank you for sharing that" when I take a risk and open up. But then I wonder if I would find that condescending. I also maybe wish she would just say one thing that she likes about me or how our therapy is different than that of her other clients. I just doubt she would do this last part though.