So define coddling. Cuz I would say yeah my t coddles me. Literally and figuratively. No conflict, or very little. The only conflict was what I brought in. I remember asking when I first started seeing him, "why aren't you yelling at me?" He said he didn't believe in it.

My recommendation would be to look at child and adolescent psychologists (like mine) and/or Asperger specIalists. I also commend the no blank slate. Current T was my first t to disclose in a local magazine article I read the reason he became a t - none of the other Ts on the article even gave a hint.