I'm not sure we could go back to the way it was now. A few years ago she was chasing other men round and denied it. But the signals where to blatantly obvious to deny. She sent a message to an ex saying about how it would be fun to catch up to see how big he was these days. There was loads of other signs like she apparently went out with her mates one night. Never came home then started sending flirty messages to a guy she had met. She said she stayed at a friends house but the thing is I'd gone to that house earlier that morning and her friends dad had said they weren't there. Since all this carry on she has totally changed with me. No affection, won't touch me and I'm running round trying to fix things.