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Originally Posted by Miguel'smom
But if you are struggling... maybe you could consider. Occasionally this can be triggering especially when struggling, even when you know you deep down made the right choice.
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This is one that we see often and it sticks out to me for a few reasons. Triggers that is MM.
Often people try to avoid triggers, but to me triggers are begging for attenion, so they keep popping up, "look at me, look at me, you need to pay attention because something is not working here and needs your attention." so I think looking at what is causing the reaction of being triggered and what needs help there is more helpful than avoiding things that cause that kind of reaction. Avoiding only tucks it under the carpet until you trip on it next time.
Venus, for me I think it comes down too, why not? I have always been a bit more of a "why not?" than a "why?" type of questioner. Why not there be a cure? I don't know it's a disease so I don't even know if a cure is needed. I can't wrap my head around the answers for why not. I think that is why I come to that possibility.