No, I absolutely don't want mothering from any one. Ever. I am okay with the fact that I have never had a maternal influence, and I don't desire it. All I want from T is a professional relationship. I have friends, don't need one that knows my darkest secrets.

I prefer she at least like me, but no requirement to love or treasure me at all. In fact, that would creep me out. No touch, no hug, no hand-holding. I have girlfriends that I hug, and I hold H's hand, that's plenty of skin cell swapping for me.