Hmm, yeah. I don't have that figured out either. I am working on it right now.
Heh concerning if you thought you knew and had it all figured out! Yes, I think so too!! Maybe it is ever changeing, our place and role, maybe it evolves as we do and we will never have it all figured out, but only for right now where we are now. What should I do now, where should I go now, how about now, what about now, are we there yet? Are we there yet? No we are here now.