Button, I try to choose my words very carefully with you, because I really don't want to sound insulting or whatever. So when I asked why you were surprised, it's because that's what reminded me of how I felt. I felt surprised to hear people at work talk so openly to each other. Or my therapist to me. Because my family didn't really talk openly to me. But I didn't realize it, because they hid it from me. Anyway, I really didn't mean to not be supportive. Anne did do a better job of saying what I meant though.