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Originally Posted by granite1
thanks chopin i know you have been struggling with this bunches . you are one of the people who i see as the T filling your needs and then kind of just pulling that rug away. maybe i am wrong but it just seemed to hurt you so bad at the time . all of a suden no hugs ,no email, coldness and boundaries. it leaves me wondering is there ever a happy ending . that hapening to me terrifies me to no end.
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I have been, but I realize now it is for my own good. I keep saying I am relieved that I can't email T...that is the honest-to-God truth. I obsessed on it too much sometimes. Boundaries can be for our good. That's why I asked for time off at work. I had to set the boundary that I cannot be overworked...fortunately my boss respects that. I believe it was hard for T to be "cold". Last week, she seemed to be happy that we were more "us" again. No hug, but that was okay. The fact that she was no longer cold and we could laugh and talk about our similarities and tease each other again was good for me. I asked her after session about her son in Afghanistan and she told me a story about him being lost in a dust storm. She asked me to pray for him and seemed to be touched by my answer, "I never stopped."
I think there is potential for a happy ending, especially the stronger I get. You will get there too. I believe in you.
