Like Ster said, mostly just listen.
I sometimes point out patterns in the things guys put down. “See where you got p###ed off here, and this is what you did, and this is what you got? See where you did the same thing here, and here as well?” That kind of stuff.
When I take a sponsee through their 5th, we also do their 6th and 7th the same day. Bam! Bam! Bam! At the end of the day, he is on step 8.
And here is the best part. You can’t do a step with your sponsee without doing it yourself. And after a 5th, 6th and 7th, we are both walking on thin air. It is such a powerful thing, that not only does he need to sit quietly for an hour or so, and reflect on what he has just done, so do I. It is always a moving experience for me.
You don’t want to miss it.
Your friend on this long strange trip to the good stuff,
Richard
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