He twists my words. Tells me we are talking about the present not the past we are not going back there, to the past. Then he does and brings up things from the past. He gets to bring up the past and the things that other people do and that is ok. I can't.

I don't get to bring up the things that others do trying to make the story easier to understand, that is about someone else not us is his answer. He gets to use examples and do things his way and I don't get the same liberty he does in our discussions. He twist my words and gets so angry and just repeats "that is not about me" or "this is not about us it's about someone else". So then we can't discuss the matter because it is about someone else. Unless he explains it that way then it is ok.

I know that sounds wishy washy. I don't know how to explain that clearly. I am terrible w/ words spoken. PTSD makes me completely unable to come up w/ words at all. They are in my head and I can't get them out to be heard. It is very frustrating.