I think it can be hard to know whether to stay and try or cut your losses and move to one who you mesh with better. I do know some therapists will say what they like about a client. The two I see do. And I don't want them to or know why they do it. I am just saying that there are therapists who will do that sort of thing. If it is what you want and the therapist you have now refuses, then maybe time to find one a little more expressive for you.