Yes you do have a problem, you're lying to yourself

Everything is so exaggerated though, who actually says I am perfect I am daddy's good little girl unless you like taking the role of a Disney princess. I hope this isn't a childhood rooted problem but it usually is...

You're not the only one, there are other attention-seeking, flamboyant women out there don't worry, but ok this is the way you seek help I get it, you may have something like many of us do. You don't find anything wrong with you because you don't have a solid morale, things unacceptable to society might be totally acceptable with you ie; sleeping with many, many strangers. You are disconnected from the society, masterbating in public, at work, where you want people to peek is unacceptable, not "a bit risky". I believe your story may be more exaggerated than it really is or dramatized. trouble may come when you feel more craving for attention and new excitement and want more also you mentioned being the jealous type, which can make things more dangerous to you and other people