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Originally Posted by elliemay
One thing that kind of strikes me here is that you seem to be working yourself up a bit. I call it "kitchen sinking". It's when one thing happens - a poorly worded email for instance - and then this one thing calls in to question the entire relationship. Everything but the kitchen sink gets added on.
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That's one way to look at it. Here's another. I'll use myself as an example.
I've been very dissatisfied for my T for a long time but I don't understand why. Then I get an email that hits all the triggers. Suddenly I have words for how I feel.
Now that one email might be innocuous in itself, but it's the straw that breaks the camel's back, opens the floodgates, lifts the scales from my eyes etc.