I don't know that "fighting against it" is the proper perspective, because IT WILL COME. What we need to do is deal with it... like the advise says "look it square in the eye" and do what it takes to overcome it.

Ok... I see what you mean. LOL Yes, it would be a "fight," wouldn't it? I guess I was thinking "avoid it" as in "going around it." AAHHH!! I'm not sure what I mean today!