Torn,

I was told by my childhood T (when I went back a few months ago to see if I could be her client again and how well we connected, or DIDN'T) about how hostile I was being to her and that it was her practice and she wasn't going to "stand for it"....some of it was real anger, wow, maybe we should explore it?? Duh.
Other times I was really just being quite sarcastic as I had with a past T who had been sarcastic too and thought it was funny.
And then sometimes she got ticked off because she was angry about something I told her had happened, and I wasn't...so she was trying to project that on to me and would tell me I should be angry about it. Ok, so then you can think I am hostile again if I am really angry???
I gave up on her and am with my other T still, for now.
I am so sorry that T treated you so badly. You deserve so much more. I hope your appt goes (or went) well.