I still want sex mentally and emotionally, but my physical sex drive is very low, and I (and my doctor) believe it's due to my meds. My pdoc gave me an allergy pill that, I guess, is supposed to help with sex drive, but I'm supposed to take it two to three hours before I want to masturbate. Thing is, it has side effects, too, and I am always nervous about side effects of a new medication. Also, I want to have a normal sex drive, where I don't have to plan to have sex. I mean, if I'm not feeling like having sex at a specific moment, how can I say, "Take a pill and make yourself want it"? I don't want to plan my sex DRIVE, more specifically.