It's odd that two men responded to your post first but I thought Astenon covered mostly what I would have said. I'll reiterate though that to string you along for two years is not cool at all. People around here say that the year mark is the time you either move on or get married. Don't necessarily agree with that but then you see cases like this and think of time lost on a hopeless en devour and think that's a good rule to have. I'm very sorry for you