Well, i'm happy to see there are men that do understand women, by the replies!you've cried and done everything else you can, so i'm glad you're going to get on with your life. it's sorry you had to waste all of yourself on someone who wasn't mature as yourself, next time around you can look for the signs, and get on with your life.i also wouldn't judge all men as bad as your ex-there are some great guys out there too.