My mom doesn't know i am in Therapy. she emails me and i talk to her on the phone and sometimes i go see her. but i can't handle seeing her as much as she would like me to. she doesn't approve of me being in therapy. ( i dont think) she told me once she doesn't want the dirty laundry hung out so everyone can see it. So now i am uncomfortable and dont know what to do. I dont want to stop seeing her from time to time because we just started building a realtionship after 8yrs of not talking. Does anyone have suggestions or has anyone been in this situation. If she new what my stepfather did to me i think she would call me a lier and never forgive me. He is dead now and she worships him till this day. even though i told her what was going on when i was in high school and she said why are you causing problems?