((Jolisse)),

Unfortunately we live in a world of people that tend to test the boundaries of others, it is just the fact of our human nature. It is important to understand that when your boundaries are being challenged, you have to learn how to come right out and inform people and do it in a "non threatening manner". Unfortunately, society is full of people who can be a tad bit ignorant when it comes to respecting the boundaries of others. And yes, there are also those who can go out of their way to disrespect the boundaries of others just to see if they can because they themselves have low self esteem and try to resolve that by some form of bullying.

I can sympathize with your challenge because I have PTSD which is an anxiety disorder and if I am pushed too far I can explode too. I have had to slow down and pay attention to this issue and had to learn how to "avoid" certain intrusive people or, just come right out and let someone know they are invading my sense of personal space.

You should look into DBT because I have met several members that have felt more empowered by it.