ouch!!

Oski
T's clumsiness aside

if you wonder whether he is out of his area of expertise with your issues... better to ask him now. Don't be surprised if he refers you - he is ethically obliged to offer to do that - but better for him to refer you before you become attached.

That happened with me and T1, but I refused to leave and although she did a lot with me, the day came when we could go no farther together & it was very hard for me to hear THEN, I can't help you any more. Wow it made me feel like such a hopeless case.

I couldn't have known this at the time, but if I had changed at the outset, to the T I have now, I am fairly sure I'd be 'done' now.
good luck