Hello everyone,

I am in a relationship with a guy and we are both undergraduates. We are both older than the average undergraduate (29 (me) and 34). I am writing this and I feel kind of stupid because I feel like I know better, but there is something that bugs me.

I may have an offer to do research in another state during the summer for 10 weeks. I don't really want to leave my university to do research somewhere else, but he says it is a good opportunity for me. What bugs me is that he doesn't seem like he will miss me. I know that I should be happy that he wants to support me and he wants me to have these opportunities, but I just feel sad. I really don't like the idea that he is okay with me being gone so long. But I know I am just being stupid. I should be happy that he is happy for me, but instead I'm just depressed.