Well I mean everytime it happens he'll deny doing it for awhile, then he'll get defensive, then he'll apologize for awhile, then for the next week or so after he'll be the sweetest ever. Then we'll be ok for a couple weeks, then we argue a little bit, then a lot, then we're ok again. But he has only pushed me 4 times since we've been together and he's only dont the thing with my throat once.