I went thru something, too, around December of 2010. this therapist would not see me unless I went back to __________, where I was treated very badly. I told her I had left that place and I was not going back. She said, "I cannot help you and therapy will not help you."

My situation was a little different from yours, but I do relate to dealing with ultimatums that I can't follow. And being told I am not getting any better, or that I can't be helped.

I hope you can do the dbt and/or stay in treatment. Sounds like a hard time you are having.

We are still here for you.

You are not alone.

Carol