Hi I replied to your thread back in General this area is for and about your therapist and therapy. Are you seeing a therapist??? To answer another one of your questions YES it could be dangerous if you flew into a rage and killed or harmed your partner. What I don't understand is why you want to answer all the questions you listed but have been told to get out and yet you do not seem to persue this safe and smart choice as leaving until you get those answers...Its like sitting on a bomb and talking about why is the red wire here and the blue on there and not getting away from the danger