Good Advice everyone...... I did always have that feeling in my gut that he was hiding something. It's good to know my instincts were right on but bad that I chose to ignore them. That is something I have to work on I guess. Being apart now has given me alot of clarity. In addition to all the secretive tendancies he had.....I do believe he was never over his divorce/past relationship and that he was emotionally unavailable. He never gave himself time to grieve his loss. He jumped in too quick with me for an ego boost or whatever. I'm sure he has again followed that same pattern and is probably involved with someone new by now. I think he needs to be in a relationship to feel whole. In my opinion.......he needs to be alone for awhile but its really not my problem now.

Everyone has been very helpful......thanks for listening to me ramble on.....lol....it does help to talk about it.