So 17 years old I met these 21 year old twins at a wedding and my cousin is dating one of them. After the party, the twin who is added me on facebook and we started talking for a few months. And we started liking each other but I kept telling him we should just stay as friends. But eventually I started liking him more and we ended coupling up on valentines day. Btw, I'm living in Malaysia and he is from here but he is studying medicine in Russia. So he was back for the holidays during February which is when I got to really hang out with him and when he asked me out and I said yes! So now we are gf and bf and he has gone back to Russia to continue his studies, yesterday. I told my mom that I like him (but I didn't say we are in a relationship) and she told me to stop messaging him before I get stuck and things get worse. And I asked her why and she said she has seen him a couple times and she doesn't like him and his twin brother is dating my cousin and my cousin's family are the biggest gossipers and they will say stuff like I always go out with guys and I am spoiled. This guy really likes me and he is super serious in our relationship and I really like him too but I'm not as serious but I still want to continue our relationship and see where it takes us. But now my mom is telling me to stop now even though she doesn't know what is actually going on. I have no idea what to do !! Should I continue messaging him behind my mom's back or should I just break up with him?