In my family, we fight a lot...especially over the smallest things. Even if we have a big fight, we will ignore each other for a few months and get back together. After the fight we give each other a few days and we are back to normal. I don't find it hard to forgive my family because they will always be there no matter what. At the end of the day, you are stuck with them! But maybe you should talk to them and tell them not to give so much stress.