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Originally Posted by stopdog
I guess I don't see it as the client fighting the therapist over change in general - but for me, I need to see that the change is not going to put me in a worse place than now, what that change is going to cost and if I (NOT the therapist) believe the cost of the change is worth it for ME. I may find that a change in some area is worth it, I may decide it is not. I actually do consider things, but the decision is mine and the time it takes me to decide is mine.
That one therapist has compared me to a cornered wounded animal.
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That's the big difference, stopdog. I was at the end. I had reached the point where I had a really detailed plan and it seemed absolutely inevitable that I was going through with that plan. I didn't want to do that to my children, but was afraid I would just get too tired or overwhelmed and lose control.