Remember though that medical people are people just like you and I, and imperfect just like you and I. And sometimes they are you and I--I'm a medical person and, while I take my job quite seriously I know for a fact that I've failed to communicate well in several instances over the 12 years I've been doing what I do, and it wasn't for lack of trying. A lot of factors come into play. Communication isn't easy. That's why I say that it is important that the individual seeking care also take responsibility--if they have questions, ask. You should never, ever put your provider in a position (in your mind) where they have authority over you or can make you feel like you are being strong-armed into doing something you don't want to do. You are a part of your healthcare team.