I have some of the bpd traits, but not the history of childhood trauma usually associated. Which would make it genetic in me. Fascinating yet confusing and hopeless feeling. I have long lasting relationships, but view myself as highly sensitive and somewhat have the love/hate problems. I will push him away a lot, (more like i isolate) but he keeps coming back... I'm really not a textbook case for either one, but my dx is bpII with add.