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Originally Posted by hankster
With me, it was like, they just didn't think I was worth the trouble. They got away with the least about of effort. They took the most possible credit, like for my good grades, wIthout ever giving me credit for making those good grades. To the extended family I was smart, but to my immediate family I was dumb and lazy and ugly. but they would never say such a thIng to my face. They just let It out In drIbs and drabs. So basically they can bite me now. I am a lot happier and a lot saner, now that I don't subject myself to their weirdness any longer. Their phoniness. I never really knew what to say or how to act. Now I understand why.
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My mom would call me those things to my face constantly, but then usually say the opposite when we were out in public. There was / is so much contradiction with her. Phoniness is probably a good way to put it. I sometimes think that I will have to go your route and cut out any contact with my mom and my sister. My brother is one of the biggest reasons I have not done so yet.