It is completely possible to be both.
I was on adderal xr for a few months in high school, but I was also on the highest dosage of lithium and lexepro, and seroquil as well... But I still struggled to keep grounded.

Everyone is different on what works for them treatment wise, every med works differently in people. If you are interested in trying a non stimulant you can talk to your pdoc about strattera. Did wonders for my brother.