Hi, I'm sorry you are feeling hurt by rude ppl around you. As you said, it's not fair of them to be intentionally rude when you haven't done anything. Others have pointed this out already but indeed, there are always ppl who will act in a rude manner. You can either confront or ignore this behavior. Often confrontation isn't an option..eg if you could lose your job bc of it. Usually when someone is rude to me at work or in school I try to not take it personally and mind my own business. Still sometimes certain remarks get to me and I consider the situation from their perspective. Some people are rude because they have their own unresolved issues.