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Originally Posted by 50 shades of kink
What do you guys think any advice?
i am a sadomas. I am also a sex addict.. i cannot fight certain urges to want to sleep with bosses,high school teachers,people with authority.
and abuse them or use them for sexual reasons or needs. I have torn families apart due to my behaviors but i don't feel bad about it even if i know it's wrong i have a hard time being in a Normal relationship that has no BDSM involvment. I have no
Sexual preference i like to abuse or be abused by both sexs.
i tried controlling my urges but i find myself in bed with my old high school teacher at the end of the week.. it irks me. how do i control my urges and how do i manage my sex life. should i even try to be in a relationship?
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First off it is always the best and most polite thing to start your own thread and not post the topic.for a thread in someone else's already exisiting thread
Secondly, there is a difference between "abuse" and consensual play, anything you do with any partner should be fully discussed and agreed on by both parties invloved if you are doing something to someone agains their will then there is a whole seperate issue going on anf you need to stop. If someone is doing something to you against your will there is also a whole seperate issue going on and you need to keep yourself safe.
Thirdly you need to find a counselor that handles sexual addiction and start working with them to get to the root of why you are doing these very self destructive and risky things. If you have sexual addiction you need to work towards a recovery program, there is also a sexual addiction support forum here on psychcentral under the addictions section.of the main forum