She does not live with me she stayS at her dadS, but does stay with me every now and than, she does work and has been working for almost a year, she's doesn't drink do drugs or party she is to scared to... plus she is still nursing my grand daughter! The baby isn't neglected or uncared for because she has a wonderful daddy who helps my daughter with the baby and all of there needs regardless if he's with my daughter or not. .. What I was talking about when I said she wants to go party is she likes to go clubbing and dancing. She was doing it every weekend for a while but I had a talk with her and she stopped, I just know my daughter and I know that if she we're to have another child any time soon she really would be overwhelmed with something that she wasn't ready for. When she is her at my house I have to constantly have to be on her to check on the baby and ask her to pay more attention to her.... cause the baby could be right in front of her sayin Mama Mama and my daughter is like in another world! I don't know, I just know her and I know that she is capable to do more for her daughter without anyone telling her! Maybe I'm being a push over or control freak I don't know, I just know another baby wouldn't have been good especially with a control, jealous, abusive man she was with! And yes she did dump him Finley too.... I'm so relieved! I think I'm just a over reactor at times but I feel it's for good reason! What do you think?