I know it's hard. And, I know you're going through some major stuff right now. which is why, I've been quiet trying to let you sort it out or passed it. But, I saw other members feeling as I did, and I don't want people thinking we're a clique or not everyone is welcome here, that's all.

This needs to be a safe place for everyone. That's all I was pointing out to you. So that you don't inadvertantly make enemies, or scare people away who need to be here. I know it's not on purpose. That's why I said something, because when you're in the fog maybe you can't see what's going on. I know how can be.

I think, maybe, remember to put the little red X thing on any post that mentions sui, okay? That may help.