I disagree, at least as a person with BPD. Sitting still is what I wish I'd done most of the time yet fighting is what I too often do. Most of the time the stupid piddly s--- that I choose to gnaw on over and over is the stuff that I should have just let pass by, unnoticed. My friends would be overjoyed if I could just let things go and stop arguing all the time. Sorry, I totally disagree.