Hi Fuzz
I, of course, couldn't let this post go without a reply. I would be seriously hypocritical if I didn't at least say I know how you feel and that I don't believe your feelings are distorted. I wouldn't bother posting to that site anymore. If you feel they don't care about you, that's how you feel and you shouldn't have to 'see their side" so to speak. Excuses are just that, excuses. Low traffic day, lost in the myriad of posts, big news day, doesn't matter. YOU still feel ignored and abandoned. I don't think anyone should ever feel that way and if that site makes you feel that way, you shouldn't open yourself up to it anymore. Just don't go there, they obviously don't deserve you or the support you so freely give.
I speak plainly and honestly at all times and I do apologize if anyone takes offense to that but I prefer honesty to just simply trying to make someone feel better. Honestly Fuzzy, just don't go where you feel you aren't appreciated or valued. It's not worth having your feelings hurt repeatedly.
hugs
tina

"hold me now, I'm six feet from the edge and I'm thinking......maybe six feet ain't so far down"