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Old Feb 28, 2013, 03:09 PM
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You have two completely independent issues. One, your relationship with one of the twin boys. For that, follow Perna's advice - do message, Skype, email, or use any other mode of communication currently available to you for relating, but do not treat it as exclusive on either end. Two, your relationship with your mother. Do you live with your mother in one household?
And, while issue ONE is simple and straightforward and has been already covered by both Perna and Angyl_amal pretty much exhaustively, issue TWO is complex. It is called "SEPARATION AND INDIVIDUATION from parents". Issue two can be discussed in much detail, with a lot of various opinions on the topic that represent different possible takes on it.