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Old Feb 28, 2013, 04:44 PM
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Originally Posted by YellowCalendar121 View Post

They would because John is still in to me, and wants be back
You cannot be mindful of everybody's feelings to such a degree, including of the feelings of those who are into you. A lot of people will be into you over the course of your life. You cannot please everybody. Sometimes, you have to make a choice, precisely because you cannot please everybody at the same time. By not going out with Ken, you are hurting his feelings, probably. By going out with Ken, you might be hurting John's feelings, conceivably.

See how you cannot please everybody?