Ok, I havne't read all the responses yet. I like to form my own opinion without being influenced by others first... so I don't know if this has been said.

I am here to help, let me say that. I understand being frustrated and angry about this. But i have to be the devil's advocate here. I don't see your pdoc as necessarily contradicting herself. First off she did say there was more than one way to get from point a to point b. The thing is, that's what she's gone and tried with you. What I see happening is that you've back slidden and she may be thinking "ok this method isn't working, maybe DBT is the better way." I'm only saying this so you have another perspective on it and hopefuly it will offset your anger.

*hugs*