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Originally Posted by Perna
I would back off some; still message him and all but not consider him my exclusive boyfriend or anything since he's away. I'd talk to other guys if you get a chance, see him when he's around but date other guys when he's not and not expect him to not date in Russia if opportunities come his way and he's interested. I think it's awfully early and awkward, because of the distance, to be trying to make something permanent. There's too many possibilities to settle when you are only 17. I met my husband when I was 34, married him when I was 39.
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Thank you for the advice Perna!
For now I will back off a bit and I am still messaging him and all but I don't feel like I need to make a commitment to him to be together forever. And in my mind, once I go off to study I will be looking for other guys because I am only 17 so I shouldn't be confined to just one especially when he is this far away. The problem is, is that he is very serious about our relationship. He has told me and my cousin and his brother that I am the last one and he has repeatedly said he wants to be together forever and he gets this feeling that we will be together forever. I am trying to explain what you said to me to him, but he is still stuck on being together forever with me. :/